In the same way, Paul continued, the Spirit helps us in our weakness, for we do not know how we should pray, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with inexpressible groaning (στεναγμοῖς, a form of στεναγμός).^[1]  I think in the same way above referred back to 1) the groaning of creation, the whole creation groans (συστενάζει, a form of συστενάζω)^[2] and suffers together until now;^[3] and 2) we ourselves also, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan (στενάζομεν, a form of στενάζω)^[4] inwardly as we eagerly await our adoption, the redemption of our bodies.^[5]  In the same way…the Spirit himself intercedes for us with inexpressible groaning (στεναγμοῖς, a form of στεναγμός).  Why?  The Spirit helps us in our weakness, for we do not know how we should pray.

To the Holy Spirit’s intercession with inexpressible groaning I can only say amen and thank you.  But I want to linger awhile over the insight we do not know how we should pray.

If I think of people at all when I think of church, I think of a small clique relative to all who believe, or have believed, or will believe in Jesus Christ for salvation.  If I’m honest the word church conjures up the by-laws and functions of a property owning not-for-profit corporation where we strive to keep the doors open, lights on, heat and air conditioning functioning so we can attract more people to help keep the doors open, lights on, heat and air conditioning functioning so we can attract more people…

In 1 Corinthians Paul effectively equated church with the body of Christ:  Now you are Christ’s body (σῶμα^[6] Χριστοῦ^[7]), and each of you is a member of it.  And God has placed in the church (ἐκκλησίᾳ)^[8] first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, gifts of healing, helps, gifts of leadership, different kinds of tongues.^[9]  And again to the Ephesians Paul wrote, It was [Jesus] who gave some as apostles, some as prophets, some as evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, that is, to build up the body of Christ (σώματος τοῦ Χριστοῦ), until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God – a mature person, attaining to the measure of Christ’s full stature.^[10]

The body of Christ, as opposed to church, gives me a whole new vision of my ignorance regarding how I should pray.  Here is my analogy:  I have decided that the body of Dan will extend its right arm parallel to the floor.  If I could imbue each muscle cell in that arm with sight and speech and reason, it is not too hard to imagine what some might say.  As they tired, as they began to think about why they were so tired, they would realize that the muscle cells across from them were pulling against them, in the opposite direction.

“Stop, you’re pulling the wrong way!” they would say.

The muscle cells on the other side of my arm would say, “You stop, we are pulling the way the spirit of Dan’s nervous system is telling us to pull.”

The others would counter, “No, you stop, we are pulling the way the spirit of Dan’s nervous system is telling us to pull.  You must be mistaken.”

“We know what the Spirit of Dan’s nervous system is telling us.”

“That’s impossible!  We know Dan.  He is very rational.  You are asserting that he would act irrationally.”

“We know the spirit of Dan’s nervous system.”

“You must be deceived by some form of evil masquerading as the spirit of Dan’s nervous system.”

On and on they argue from their limited perspectives.  How could they pray intelligently?  And if I decided that the body of Dan would wave its arm back and forth, first one side would receive the signal to relax as the other side continued pulling.

“Finally, you see the light,” the pulling side would exclaim.  And they would encourage each other with words like, “We’re winning!  The truth prevails!”

Then as the direction changed and that side was given the signal to relax and the other side to pull, the relaxed muscle cells would lament, “Oh, no!  Evil rules!”

Obviously, If I had imbued my muscle cells with any kind of self-will they would fight me to satisfy their own egos, if I imbued them with egos, that is.

It is easy now to see why the Spirit himself intercedes for us with inexpressible groaning, but what about those times I pray with my mind?  I still meditate on Scripture, and I still ramble on and on about my confusions, frustrations and concerns, but when I ask for things in prayer I have become very dependent on the Lord’s Prayer, not as a model prayer, but word for word from Matthew 6:9-14 (NET):

Our Father in heaven…  I am particularly mindful then that I pray for all who call on our Father, or have called, or will call, on Him.  My prayer is no longer limited geographically or temporally.  It is as expansive and all-encompassing as Almighty Eternal God chooses to hear it.

…may your name be honored…  Here is the raison d’etre^[11] for all who call on our Father.

…may your kingdom come…  Here is the mission amplified by the next line, may your will be done (or, become) on earth as it is in heaven.  I have no idea how God’s will is done in heaven, but I assume it is not by police forces but by something more akin to being led by the Holy Spirit.

Give us today our daily bread…  Like Jesus’ disciples^[12] before me I thought He was talking about bread, food.  After I studied life (ζωή) I realized He meant bread of life.^[13]  I pray for that daily infusion of Christ Himself, his love, his joy, his peace, his patience, his kindness, his goodness, his faithfulness, his gentleness, and his self-control (ἐγκράτεια).^[14]  And I pray this not for myself alone but for all who call on our Father, or have called, or will call, on Him.

…and forgive us our debts, as we ourselves have forgiven our debtors.  Oh, how I used to labor here, wondering, doubting, could it be enough?  The Lord knows my weakness, my need for penance.  What could be better than to preoccupy myself and my mind with forgiving others?  But again, I pray not for myself alone but for all who call on our Father, or have called, or will call, on Him.

And do not lead us into temptation (πειρασμόν), but deliver us from the evil one.  Though James^[15] had a singularly macho attitude toward temptation (πειρασμοῖς and  πειρασμόν are forms of πειρασμός),^[16] I am more than content to side with Jesus here, and pray not for myself alone but for all who call on our Father, or have called, or will call, on Him.

And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, Paul continued in Romans, because the Spirit intercedes on behalf of the saints according to God’s will.  And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose, because those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that his Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.  And those he predestined, he also called; and those he called, he also justified; and those he justified, he also glorified.^[17]

He is worthy of our trust.